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I am not going to talk about the medical side of pregnancy as it will have a lot of details that I will not be able to give as your doctors, but I will talk about it from the psychological side from my point of view after having my own pregnancy experience.

I still remember that day as it is one of the happiest days of my life. I am fond of babies and I love their smile. I feel a deep peace inside comes from their pure hearts.

pregnant woman hand drawn style

I was almost sure that I am pregnant, but I was not brave enough to say anything before making sure especially my husband and I were trying for 6 six months. I got a home pregnancy test and the result was obviously clear that I am pregnant. You will never be able how much happy I was ( I think I was happy more than when I got married šŸ˜€ ) I could not get out of the bathroom. I kept looking to the test, looking at the mirror and then start laughing and crying at the same time O.o .

Of course, I told my husband first and he insisted to tell all the ones we care about at the same moment so we made some calls and the went to the close ones. when I started telling some people how much I am happy that I am going to have a little baby the shocking negative replies began:

  • Oh, It is really nice, but make sure to get as much as you can of sleep as you will miss or even forget something that called SLEEPING!!!
  • I see you are happy, but soon you will discover what does pregnancy really mean!!!
  • What will you do when your baby comes? I do not think you can leave your work or will you send him to a nursery? oh, poor little baby. will it be safe for him?
  • I hope you will get a BOY baby!!!
happy couple smiling after find out positive pregnancy test bedroom

REALLY?

  • For sure, I know that most of the things in my life will be changed after the baby not ONLY sleeping, but you could mention a good change like (You will become a mother šŸ™‚ )
  • You are right, I do not know what does pregnancy really mean, but I would like to discover this on my own.
  • and the worst part is talking about my work in that way. I did not share my own financial issues with you. I really cannot leave my work, but I will do my best for my little baby.
  • And what if the baby was a girl? why could a boy baby be better than the girl? they are the same (a gift from God)

I cannot deny that some people said some nice words and these the people I am trying to keep around me, but I still have to deal with the others.

We cannot say for such people to stop giving negative replies or just be polite. We cannot tell them: Please be nice or just shut up!

But here what we can do: DO NOT you ever let any negative word affect you. I know that most of the women (if not all of them) become more sensitive, but you need to be strong in order not to affect your baby with these negative feelings. You need to be strong to have a HAPPY pregnancy.

Pregnancy is not an easy experience especially for the first time mothers, but believe me it is a gift from GOD that many other women wish to get.

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